Dear Lauren, Is honesty the best policy?

Dear Lauren,
I’m 27 and have been dating this guy for a month. We both just got out of relationships. A week ago I started to wonder why he wasn’t being particularly romantic. So when he left his Facebook account open I read one of his messages. In it he questioned being with me because he [...]

Dear Lauren, How do we come back together?

Hi Lauren.
I’m in love! Thing is, I had to leave him to figure that out. We met on yahoo personals, became totally infatuated with one another and I moved in with him on his request, 3 weeks later. Over time I started changing to try and please his mom, his friends, and his teenage daughters. [...]

Dear Lauren, Got a crush, now I want my first kiss.

Dear Lauren,
I’m 15 and I haven’t kissed a boy. A month ago I crossed paths with this boy I like after school and we hung out for 45 min and had a lot of fun. But we haven’t talked since. There’s a party soon and he will be there. I was planning to make a move [...]

Dear Lauren, What should a guy do on a first date?

Dear Lauren,
What should a man do on a first date when he doesn’t know her well?
-Beruk from Portland, Oregon
Hi Beruk,
Great question! And the answer is simple. Be a gentleman. Here is a list of basic first date etiquette that will charm and capture her fancy:
1. Plan the date. If you [...]

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Dear Lauren, I try to make it work, he doesn’t.

Dear Lauren,
Me and my boyfriend have just recently moved in together. I feel like I have been putting everything I have into our relationship and he is just along for the ride. I feel like he has fallen out of love with me. What can I do to get the TRUTH out of him? How [...]

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Dear Lauren, should I take his calls?

Dear Lauren,
I put an ultimatum on my boyfriend that I wanted 100% from him or nothing at all. He pulled away and finally told me he’s been confused about whether he wants a relationship at all. He says he’s overworked, stressed, and doesn’t feel he’s able to make me happy. I told him to not [...]

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Dear Lauren, he takes too much cave time

Dear Lauren
I’ve just rekindled a past relationship.  I haven’t completely decided on him yet. We are taking it slow and I still go on coffee dates with other men. I notice that he goes into his cave for long periods of time and quite often. I just wonder if this will really wear on me over [...]

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Dear Lauren, I need a Saturday night man

Dear Lauren,
I am 27 and have been single for 3 years. I go between wanting to be in a relationship but not finding a good guy to not wanting a relationship at all. But every time Saturday night rolls around I think about my lack of a date and it bums me out. I don’t [...]

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Dear Lauren, does Mr. Right really exist?

Dear Lauren,
I am a victim of huge expectations. So, lately I’ve been thinking…is there really a Mr. Right out there for everyone? And if there is, how can I change this fear of mine that he is impossible to find?
-Alicia from Mexico City
Hi Alicia,
I believe in Mr. Right and I believe that there is at [...]

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Dear Lauren, I got the “lets just be friends” axe.

Dear Lauren,
I’ve been dating this guy for 4 months. Then he got very busy at work and after 6 weeks of spotty contact I told him my feelings were hurt.  I emailed/texted him multiple times a day asking what had happened and when could we talk?  He sent an angry email saying he was working 14-hour [...]

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