Dear John, I met this women a month or so ago. I think we hit it off pretty well. We hung out, and we exchanged e-mails. Then she told me something about a friend of mine. I failed to remember that it was told to me in confidence, and I said something to someone else, [...]

I believe that we live in an age of practical miracles. Miracles created largely by an age of information that affects us all in a variety of powerful ways.
Concepts that were impossible to comprehend in an earlier time are now easy to grasp. There is no need to discard old concepts simply because they conflict [...]

Dear John, Should a woman drop clues to a man to show that she is interested in him? In your book, Mars and Venus on a Date, you  suggested that one way for a woman to encourage a man’s interest is to ask his assistance for something, but I’m worried that this might seem  pushy. [...]

Dear John, I feel as if my life has been a waste.  When I was a child, my father put me down all the time.  I was told I was a nothing, I didn’t know how to dress, no one liked me, I was bad, I was ugly, I was stupid, etc., over and over [...]

Dear John, How can I deal with the ups and downs of living with my guy? One day, he is the wonderful, sensitive man I married. The next day, he is uncommunicative, forgetful, or downright rude.  Don’t get me wrong: I love him very much, but there are times I feel that he’s not worthy [...]

It’s no secret that the economy, while improving, is continuing to put a strain on countless relationships not only here in North America, but in nearly every corner of the globe. At MarsVenusLiving we continue to get questions, about unemployment and the stress that puts on a relationship. Many of the letters have come from [...]

Dear John, It’s tough for me to say, but the truth is, every year we are married my wife and I are having less sex.  I don’t even know how to tell her that this bugs me.  What can I do?  Ed in Scottsbluff, Nebraska
Dear Frustrated:  Frequent sex is often the first casualty of a [...]

John is happy to announce that in cooperation with MindBites.com, he has started to put some of his favorite video lecture and seminar programs online for you to watch at anytime. In the coming weeks and months this new resource will be greatly expanded to include Mars and Venus Starting Over, Children Are from Heaven, How [...]

Dear John, I know that the time has come for me to ask my sweetheart to marry me, but I have to tell you, saying those four little words: “Will you marry me?”  is  just about the hardest thing I have ever needed to do. At the same time I know I love her with [...]

In this week’s health message John discusses the remarkable and well documented benefits of green tea extract. While there has long been curiosity and debate over the extent of green tea’s health benefits, nearly all researchers agree that green tea, at the very least, has important antioxidants and compounds that help in maintaining good health.
John, and many [...]