I am twenty years-old and engaged to be married.  My fiancé, “Alex,” who is 22, is really a great guy.  We share the same values, but in certain ways we differ in how we view our relationship.  Maybe it’s just a Mars/Venus thing, but it does have me worried just the same. For example, he [...]

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Dear John, Before I married “Tom,” we discussed what “success” in life meant to both of us. We are both well paid executives in different high tech companies and enjoy a high standard of living. We agreed that success for us was starting and raising a wonderful family.  Before we married, we both agreed that [...]

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Dear John, What are your thoughts regarding online dating? I am a divorced 45-year-old (or should I say “young”) woman, and I’ve just started to come out of my shell after a fourteen-year failed marriage. I have been talking with several men and have met a few of them on dating sites. Some I have talked [...]

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Dear John, Although I am married, I have gone without love and romance in my life for years.  Three months ago I met Pam, who has rekindled feelings that I have repressed for a very long time. This is an exciting new awakening for me! Feelings of love that I thought were lost forever have now [...]

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Dear John, My wife is forty-two and a really attractive woman. She is rare in the fact that she makes clothes look great on her instead of the other way around. She has one big problem, however, she constantly remarks about her “need to lose ten pounds.”
This just doesn’t make any sense to me. She is [...]

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Dear John, My husband and I have been married a little less than six months. Both of us are in our mid-thirties and both of us have children from  previous marriages.  We get along great, except for the fact that my husband is critical of my son. However, if I say one thing about either of [...]

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Dear John, I’ve been married for ten years. Recently I found out my husband and three of his friends went to a strip club.  One of the men, who is also married, went “upstairs” to have a private lap dance. I found all this out by sheer accident.  My husband told me he never gave any [...]

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