Comments on: Why Men Go Into Their Caves

By: Devi

Devi — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 16:36:54 +0000

These four reasons certainly fill in some blanks, but I still do not get a sense of how long they can healthily disappear for. Many times I read about a woman freaking out because he’s been in his cave for a few days or a week. My guy disappears sometimes for many weeks, but re-emerges ready to love again. I find this hard to understand — why so long? But then again, my man seems to really need alone time anyway. I have not been clear enough with him that this bothers me and I do wonder if he will come back; even though it is not good to disturb them in their caves, isn’t it reasonable to ask that they be a lot more clear about how long they will be gone? Some guys just aren’t.

By: alli

alli — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 01:28:15 +0000

how can a woman know that the man is not going into the cave to think about ending the relationship? or is hiding emotionally as an excuse to cover up an affair?

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