Happy Marriages Have Sex and Passion

September 24, 2009

inlove Without passion, sex becomes routine and boring.

But with the addition of advanced bedroom skills and love, a couple can continue to experience great passion and fulfillment. Instead of becoming less passionate over the years, a man who sees and touches his wife’s naked body can be more turned on than ever. Not only can he be excited by the pleasure of arousal and increasing sexual intensity, but he can also be aware of how much more love, warmth, passion, and sensual affection he will be able to experience as well as provide for her. This awareness elevates sex to an even higher level of passion and excitement.

When she feels his passion for her, she can rejoice in his continued desire to connect with her and provide her with pleasure. She also recognizes sex as an opportunity to share love in a way that nurtures him the most. Sex therefore becomes a beautiful expression of her love for her man and an opportunity to receive, in the deepest fibers of her soul, his love for her.

After practicing advanced bedroom skills, a man is much more aware that he is not only making love to his partner, but is also getting the love that he needs. He will be turned on not just because he is feeling sexual, but because he loves her and wants to be close to her. Without feeling the need for some fantasy woman to be turned on, he will truly know who he is loving.

Sex is great when it is shared by two loving people and creates a love that keeps growing. For a woman to grow in sexual fulfillment, she primarily needs to feel emotionally supported in the relationship. But it is also important for the man to skillfully understand her different sexual needs.

For a man to grow in sexual fulfillment, he primarily needs to feel successful in fulfilling his partner’s sexual desires. This requires that he practice new skills not only in the relationship, but in the bedroom as well.

The above excerpt is from John Gray’s “Mars and Venus in the Bedroom.” In this New York Times bestseller, among other topics on successful intimacy, you will find a detailed guide to advanced bedroom skills.

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