Comments on: Why Guys Don’t Call http://marsvenusliving.com/single-dating/guys-calling-women/ For the Best Relationships on Earth Wed, 28 Jul 2010 15:28:12 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: TraLaLa http://marsvenusliving.com/single-dating/guys-calling-women/comment-page-1/#comment-3365 TraLaLa Tue, 06 Oct 2009 11:34:59 +0000 http://marsvenusliving.com/?p=2124#comment-3365 I'm sorry but I don't agree with your advice. In my expereience, guys do what they want to do, and every time I called/emailed a guy to follow up after a first date his response was that he didn't see us as a match. Or he feels like a loser because he realizes he's the one who should have followed up, and this changes the whole male/female dynamic and we end up in the friend zone. Every time a guy was into me, he called/emailed the next day thanking me for a wonderful time and asking me out again. This demonstrates he's confident and knows how to get what he wants, traits that I (and I believe many women) find attractive. If a guy is reluctant to call after a first date, for the reasons you state above, I believe he's too immature for a relationship. Perhaps some women are ok with that but I'd rather have a child, not date one. I’m sorry but I don’t agree with your advice. In my expereience, guys do what they want to do, and every time I called/emailed a guy to follow up after a first date his response was that he didn’t see us as a match. Or he feels like a loser because he realizes he’s the one who should have followed up, and this changes the whole male/female dynamic and we end up in the friend zone.

Every time a guy was into me, he called/emailed the next day thanking me for a wonderful time and asking me out again. This demonstrates he’s confident and knows how to get what he wants, traits that I (and I believe many women) find attractive.

If a guy is reluctant to call after a first date, for the reasons you state above, I believe he’s too immature for a relationship. Perhaps some women are ok with that but I’d rather have a child, not date one.

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